Have we been conditioned to think as we do? ... can we change it?
Personally I believe that when we are born we are pretty much a blank canvass with some basic built in survival and learning instincts. What happens after that is then a response to the things happening around us. I believe when we are born we are basically good and ready to go, after that it's what we learn and believe to be true that determines how we see the world and behave.
So... What are the influences on us? Our parents, family, school, TV, Media, the Internet, the friends and acquaintances we meet. Every time we meet, connect or talk to someone we are picking up an assimilated view of their life, connections and experiences. How people talk, their choice of words, their view of the world tells us a huge amount about the way they think and believe in, more than the actual conversation we're having but only if we are able to tune in to receive it. That is why I am so fascinated by people and the conversations, we can learn so much about people, the way they think and their behaviours. First rule of relationship building, first seek to understand then seek to be understood, more relevant today than it has ever been.
Our view of the world is thus conditioning. We assimilate the input and we form belief systems based on what we consider is to be the truth. For many of us, this is the world, the truth, but it is not, it is only one way to see things. We do become very attached to our beliefs which is why we have arguments, battles and even wars. People wanting others to conform to their way of thinking, and if you don't then shout louder and louder until they do, or perhaps even worse.
We are all subject to years of conditioning, it is not our fault or anyone else's, but we don't have to continue to be slaves to it. We need to question everything. Some examples...
- Is the health service actually interested in our health or is it really just a money making venture for those in the health industry?
- Is our education system designed to ensure our young people are equipped to participate fully in the world today as valued contributors to society or is it more interested in creating obedient citizens with no appetite for creativity or problem solving?
- Are those in the food industry providing wholesome foods that are nutritious and good for us, or just interested in making a profit, with scant regard for the implications of the chemical soup they manufacture?
- Are those involved in governance and the law interested in our freedom and happiness or just looking for ever more sophisticated ways to control and manipulate us? ... Makes you wonder doesn't it?
In fact we are sold many ideas like 'you can't change capitalism or what we have got', we've tried everything else, nothing works... We might as well stick with what we know... It's not that bad is it? Who does that serve? Yup, those who would benefit from the status quo... And it is their publishing channels, newspapers, TV and other media that is delivering these messages... Hence why we need to question everything. And anyway... We haven't tried everything, we've tried a few things based on the same greed and focus on money, no wonder they didn't work either! ... but we could invent something new, something that hasn't got a label yet, something that works for the majority not the minority.
What if we listened to real people who have no vested interest in the outcome, who are only interested in truth and authenticity. The Internet is the big enabler, we can now discover and connect with like minded people more easily than ever before, and information can be shared at lightening speeds. People can and are making the news, sharing their real stories and actual experiences not those manufactured around a boardroom table designed to illicit a desired response. It's is no wonder that the Internet is next on the agenda for control using the threat of terrorism as the fear factor for getting it approved.
When someone asks me for something or to do something, I always ask the question, why? Why are they asking me... And how are they asking me? ... Is it good for them alone? is it a win / win? Does it fit in with my own values? ... will other people benefit, is it fair, does it move us all in the right direction?
We're all on a journey... The journey to capitalism we've been on for 50 years is at the very heart of the now culture we are part of and which is at the root of many of the problems in the world today.
So we can acquiesce, we can be apathetic, we can continue to be 'good citizens' in the eyes of those who have defined what that looks like... Or... We can choose not to. We can question things and seek to make a real difference... And what if we did that together?